Mother's Day 2010

When it comes to Mommies, River has one of the very bestest in the whole wide world! (She is also a pretty good wife too!) We're all in agreement; We'll keep her!
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Happy Mother's Day, Jo!
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Catching Up

It's been a few weeks. . sorry for the delay. A combination of issues (computer problems, heavy workload and beautiful weather) have conspired to keep me from posting recently. Here's what has been going on:
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We celebrated Jo's second Mother's Day. She just keeps getting better and better! I've asked myself from time to time if this is really the same girl I met 15 years ago in college? The one with purple hair? Yep! It is and she's an amazing Mommy. She's been honing her S.M.V. (Serious Mommy Voice) when it comes to situations requiring a slightly elevated tone of authority but not crossing the line and sounding angry. It's seems to be working. . River is taking notice and so am I. I'm happy to report that both River and I have been doing much better about not throwing as many tantrums.
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Mother's Day 2009
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River's Daycare/Learning Center closed. Children's Express, which was a WONDERFUL place, fell victim to the struggling economy and ridiculously expensive revised government guidelines. I ask you, seriously, when has the government (state or federal) ever truly improved anything? ANYTHING? What was perfectly acceptable a year earlier suddenly was no longer acceptable now. State required upgrades such as $6,000.00 sinks (yes, more than one) and $20,000.00 worth mulch in the play ground among other things dealt the death blow to a place filled with learning, compassion and happiness. Gee, I can't wait until health care is controlled by the government too!

River, of course, doesn't understand why she doesn't get to see so many of her friends anymore. She asks about them all the time. Life is full of goodbyes. I didn't want it to start so soon for her.

Getting ready to leave on the last day at Children's Express.

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River enjoying an ice cream party with her friends on the last day at Children's Express.
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We returned to The Krohn Conservatory for the annual Butterfly Show ("Butt Flies" as River calls them). River enjoyed herself despite the fact that the show was heavy on the people and a little light on the butterflies. No big deal for River - she's a people watcher.
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One of the rare Indian Butterflies on display at the show.

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River taking it all in. She was staring at this. .

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. . gigantic butterfly. I think it could have carried her away.
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Back in the jungle with my Doodlebug.

Happy Real Boss's Day

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"I've seen the bosses job, and I don't want it."

- Bill Cosby

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Women are natural-born multi-taskers. All of them. I've worked for men and for women. Men are easier. They don't expect too many things at once. . the tend to space 'em out a bit. They have no reason to think that you (assuming you're a guy like me) are capable of moving any faster than they are. Women. . well, look out. You're going to be busy. I've also been in charge of men and women. I have to hustle because the women are always on the verge of making me look bad (and often do). They are quick. Organized. They have psychic abilities. Eyes in the back of their heads. .
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Mothers have honed these skills to black-belt status. They've reached the apex. Multi-Taskers Supreme.
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My wife has recently joined the ranks of women who can proudly claim the title of "Mother" and it is a title that fits her like a glove. 14 years ago she relieved my Mom of my personal care taking duties. She's managed to keep me happy and healthy while holding down a full-time job and managing the daily household stuff. Oh sure, I do stuff too. I do laundry, loosen tight jars and kill spiders. I also occasionally have to be the big scary voice on the phone whenever Jo's diplomacy falls on deaf ears during the occasional customer debacle. Make no mistake, however, it is Jo who is responsible for the Lion's Share of keeping everything together and running smooth. And now we have a daughter! Now she has 2 of us to look after!! AND SHE WANTED TO DO THIS!! Is she crazy?
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Happy Mother's Day, Jo. River and I love you and are so grateful for all you do.

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